So, against my better judgment, and because I have nothing better to do value your opinions greatly, I decided to try out online dating. Some of you recall that I did it years a go. Many years ago. Would you like to know what’s changed?
Not a monkeyfighting thing!
Same players. Same games. But an older, wiser and more focused Babs.
As per usual, the harvest is plenty but the quality men are few. So I have to be very cutthroat about the whole thing. Don’t like your introductory email? Next! Blurry profile pic? Next! Any reference to “drama free” in your profile? Next! Claim to love long walks in the park? See ya!
After a few days, really it was two, I was able to narrow it down to three favorites. Three men who a) seemed intelligent b) were attractive c) didn’t give me the heebie jeebies.
So far I’ve managed to meet one of the fellows for a drink. I more than likely won’t be seeing him again. Nice guy, just too low energy for my taste. And he had an accent. But I’ll save my dislike of Black men with accents for another post.
Still, boring date and all, it was still A DATE. One in which I didn’t have to reach for my pocketbook. One with intelligent conversation and laughter. And one that ended by 11pm so I could go home and finish watching the Olympics.
*throws confetti all over blogland*
I’m back, baby!
Congrats!
There is nothing wrong with a free meal and good conversation! I hope you meet someone great.
The one thing I can say about online dating is that it is quite entertaining. Enjoy it and hopefully you will meet a great guy.
**I say this as I delete my own profile because I am a magnet for men “in transition.” In other words, “ain’t workin’ no where!”** LOL!
Ha!! And “care about the environment” means don’t have a car!
Oh boy… LOL
Maaaaan, online dating is the devil. Not to say I wouldn’t try it again, but it’s REALLY low on my list of options. May your quests be more fruitful than mine.
Chile…you are better than I. I contemplate going back to doing online dating, but then I’m like ‘Eff it’. Met a guy on Friday at happy hour. 26 with an 11 month old. No, sir.
Upon meeting T, I was totally unconvinced that meeting him for dinner was a good thing to do. But I ended up using the rational: “A gal’s gotta eat…” and it ended up turning out a-okay.
I am excited to read of these new adventures of yours.
Back in the game! Hey..what’s life without adventure? You’re wiser, you recognize game, you’ll be fine.
A song for you: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uB1D9wWxd2w
I am so looking forward to your adventures. Please go forth and date frequently!